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Friday, May 29, 2020

Letters

Hold your head high

To the editor:
On this Memorial Day, I first want to thank WJFF and The Democrat for not forgetting the men and women who gave their lives for our Country.
The following is a letter by William Silberman, PFC WW II of Hurleyville. He had a premonition that his 10 man patrol the next day would be his last and yet he, like so many that day, before and since, went willingly into harm's way out of a deep-seated sense of duty to his Country. They did it for you and me. They did it so the generations that come after would be able to enjoy the hard fought Freedoms our Democracy promises.

From William Silberman, PFC.
Somewhere in Italy
January 12, 1944
Dear Mom, Pa, & Sisters,
I'm sure I could express my thoughts better by writing a Jewish letter but time is so short and right now so very precious that speed is very essential. Now I'm going to write a lot of silly things so take it at its face value. If I come out of this alive you'd never receive it but if instructions are carried out accordingly it will be all over with me. I'm only taking this step so that you will all know that I went into this thing willingly and not reluctantly. I was always curious and in this case you would say curiosity was a factor in contributing to my death.
Don't infer from what I just wrote that I was slightly crazy because that would be very far from the truth. I was inducted because there was a war to fight and certainly that wasn't any of my doing. I believed that what I received was written in the cards and nothing would change it. You can also realize that as an American I had something to fight for and because I am Jewish I had something more to fight for. I wasn't going to let somebody else do my fighting for me. Anyway I figured that whatever fate had in store for me I wasn't in any position to change her plans.
I write this so you would know in what frame of mind I was in a day before my buddies and myself were scheduled to go to the front. I'm sitting at a table in a little Italian farmhouse, which is not far from the front. I'm not the only one writing and there are quite a few waiting to get a seat. I wonder if there is anyone else who has the same plans that I have, namely writing in the same view as myself. My morale is high and I feel that luck is with me but anything can happen.
This fighting business is only a lot of common sense and a lot of luck but I suppose luck was against me.
I'm in a swell outfit and since being here have made a number of friends that I know I can count on and naturally vice-versa. Quite a few things might happen, Anne, so if it's God's will I might still be alive but the chances are very slim if you are notified by the government. I want you to feel proud of the fact that I made the supreme sacrifice as they say and you can hold your head high knowing that I never did anything that would make you ashamed of me. I want life to go on as usual as far as the family is concerned and that Chuck comes home and you live a happy and normal life. I haven't any regrets that I can think of and know what life is. I know that it's going to be hard on Mom and Pa but I wish, I mean, I demand that they carry on with their life and not let my death in any way deter them from enjoying a peaceful life. It's hard to explain my feelings because I'm in the best of health right now and only pray to God to be able to write happier letters than this one.
I spent the day by being present at a gathering of our Battalion today and was thrilled by having General Mark Clark present the Congressional Medal of Honor to a lieutenant for doing combat that really deserves far better than that. Four other noncommissioned officers were also given the Distinguished Service Cross. General Truscott was there too and so I feel that very seldom is such a ceremony possible to be seen by a soldier who just got under the wire in being assigned to an outfit. It really gave me a thrill. You'll probably see them in the News Reels.
Tonight I attended the Jewish Services conducted by a Protestant Chaplain. I was accompanied by a staff Sergeant and it relieved me a great deal. There were only twelve of us besides the Chaplain and he also took part in the Services. He's a swell guy.
If you think it's easy to end this letter you're mistaken but end it I must so again I'm begging you. Don't take it too hard and hold your head high. I'm going to do all in my power to do my job and to keep this letter from being delivered but as you see you wouldn't know anything about it if the unforeseen didn't happen.
Love,
Willie

This young soldier was my Uncle who I was named after. I never got to meet him. He was sent out as a scout on Patrol the next day. He was killed by an enemy company that came up from behind. Although Uncle Willie's body was never recovered, years later another soldier from that patrol said he died when he stood up to alert the rest of the men. He died saving lives.
This is why Memorial Day is special for me and always will be.




William Kapito
Acting Commander of Jessie Brahms Post 206 JWV

Self-serving liar

To the editor:
At the end of his May 5 letter John Pasquale signs off, adding the letters, “BS,” which not only probably cites an educational degree but doubles as an accurate description of the letter's content.
After several paragraphs in which he expands on his professional qualifications, Pasquale parrots the same falsehood often cited by Donald Trump that the media is “feeding us the usual hype” (fake news). If anything the mainstream press, in its zeal to come off as “objective” has often failed to expose Trump for the self-serving liar that he is.
My view of the press' role is that of the premier guardian of our democracy, and should not simply report on what elected officials say and do, but help the public to understand the ramifications of such actions. The media should ask probing, sometimes skeptical questions, and not just powder puff queries like those from Fox “News.”
Pasquale's example of “hype” is when the media often raises the issue of youngsters that are infected or die from the Covid-19 pandemic. After all, Pasquale argues, statistically far fewer young people are adversely affected, so why keep bringing them up? He goes on to denounce mandating that children remain at home or wear face masks and gloves in public since they're at far less risk than older, more susceptible individuals!
As with most of Pasquale's letters he attempts to sanctify his ridiculous and often mean-spirited statements by citing passages from scripture, but in doing so, it provides evidence as to how far he strays from biblical teachings. I don't expect that should Pasquale read my response it will convince him to change his thinking, but hopefully it will help to convince others to join the cause against the miserable Trump cult that threatens our continuation as a free nation and even that of our natural world.


Marshall Rubin
Youngsville

No clue to WWJD

To the editor:
In response to WWJD by Jennifer Young:
It's not bad enough that the cry babies have come out of hibernation for the next 6 months but Jennifer doesn't have a clue as to what Jesus would do.
“Other religions” stone their women to death in public, treat women like garbage and demean them; they get no pass from Jesus for they do not love thy neighbor. Religions that shout death to others, he wouldn't give respect for they go against the Ten Commandments and they don't believe in him.
She forgets this nation was built on Christian-Judeo principles, that elective abortions go against the 5th, “Thou shall not Kill”. She's happy that liberal-progressive-democrats brought back infanticide and “kill at will” abortions. Jesus is appalled because Jesus is pro-life.
Court Justices that are pro-constitution, it's about time. How about accountability on those women that lie, tried to defame another person with their lies, oh that's ok with Jennifer though I know Jesus doesn't approve of this.
I didn't know the Northeast is Liberal? Add in progressive's and their agenda of “get Trump out at any cost” has wasted $$$millions of our tax money, they've wasted massive time with NO results and do nothing for the country.
Guns are severely regulated against the law-abiding, not against criminals and democrats have no idea what “common-sense” is with any issue. Liberals are finding out what their common-sense gun laws are about since they too are buying guns now and have to wait ten days to take possession of them as they don't understand this.
Jennifer has no clue to WWJD, doesn't know Jesus IS Wise nor knows that bad things she is for comes from Satan. She should re-visit Christian beliefs. To say “IF Jesus cared” shows no clue to who Jesus is!
Save us, dump the democrats in November!


Don Dittmer
Lake Huntington

Destruction

To the editor:
Oh my gosh what is next
Upon us now a shocking hex
Our looking forward to every day
Seems it's just so dark and grey
Vacations all a real bad choice
Stay home some alone, just the doctor's voice
Cancel whatever you made in the past
No one knows how long this will last
The virus far short the rest is all there
Destruction is spreading we all are aware
Follow the surgeons who are helping the sick
If you are far from home
Please get there real quick.


Catherine LoBosco
Liberty

Give me a break

To the editor:
March ok, April and May still feels kinda cool
June, July the temps go high
My days are in the pool
But this is a bummer, where is our summer
Enough all this distress
It's just not fair
Doesn't anyone care?
At least try your very best
Gimme me a break for goodness sake
I bought a new bathing suit
It's a real bright red and my parents said
In it I look real cute
Well I'll hope and wait a little fate
We still have lots of time
Soon as that hot sun peeks right through
My suit and my pool just fine.


Catherine LoBosco
Liberty

The Blessed Beginning

To the editor:
Religion is a gift from God
Born a blessing, rest is hard
Must follow Ma Ma's don'ts and do's
As she helps put on your shoes
When you grow and all seeps through
Attending church for sure for you
The priest up front will preach non stop
He's there if you must ask him what
So much more to this sacred life
Soon you become a husband or wife
Never forget the Blessed Beginning
Won't lose I bet, you'll always be winning
Have faith in every direction
Be thankful and look above
Your days and nights I promise
Always full of undying love.


Catherine LoBosco
Liberty

Make up your own mind

To the editor:
There has been a significant reporting concerning Sullivan County Family Court Judge Michael McGuire. While it is most unfortunate that some of his actions lend to the current outcry, they do not warrant a “character assassination” to an individual who has served his community with his efforts.
What needs to be stated in this matter is that there is full transparency as nothing was hidden. Also, there is an appeal process pending that could be interesting.
As for the appointment of Judge McGuire to the position of County Attorney (and he would be a good one), that is a matter for the Sullivan County Legislature.
I commend the editors and reporters of this newspaper for their objectivity and factual presentation of the issues. It is the readers' responsibility what to believe in this matter and not to be swayed by biased reporting.


Ralph John Savarese
Middletown

Such Kind People

To the editor:
This past week we had a dilemma!
There is a special way that Jewish people prepare the body of the deceased for burial. It is done with much respect and care, and it is called a Tahara - meaning a spiritual purification. It is considered a most important tradition and law, that many who may not have been religiously active still insist on having a tahara done.
This past week, sadly, our community has lost a dear member who had Coronavirus. Since it was known that this was the cause of death, many were scared to volunteer for this great Mitzvah (good deed.) Note: This Mitzvah is done by community members as an act of love and care for others. It is the last deed that can be done to the deceased. They are not paid at all. They usually remain anonymous. The family does not know who they are. There are usually at least four volunteers. In this case though, most of our local volunteers were scared of participating, and some were away. We went to the neighboring communities of Monroe, Money and New Square.
They said that they will do it if we can transfer the body there for this preparation. The family objected to this move.
We called back the Monroe Community who said that the volunteers will gladly do it if we bring the deceased to them, so that it would only take them a few minutes to leave their houses in the middle of the night and then the 1 ½ - 2 hour process. He and his friend volunteered to do the twice 2-hour trip.
When I told them that this will not work with the family, he said that he will ask the volunteers again.
Amazingly these four “ladies” as well as their two drivers agreed to leave their houses at 10:30 p.m. and travel to Monticello, spend two hours with a lady whom they never knew before, and who came from another community whom they may not have known existed. At 1:30 a.m. they returned home arriving at 2:30 a.m. Of course they had all of the precautions necessary to work with a Covid person.
I am writing to express my amazement at such special people who out of concern that a fellow Jewish person may not have their “Tahara” left the comfort of their homes in order to help others.
I do not know their names and cannot thank them personally. The only thing I know is that they come from the Satmar Community of Monroe.
I am writing this in order to thank them publicly and in order to inspire myself and others to follow their amazing example in helping others that maybe we do not know, and lastly: If you should ever see or hear something negative about “their” Community, please realize that many of them are extra-ordinary, beautiful people.
They may not think exactly as we do, and may do things differently than we would, but in their own special way, they are amazing!
By the way, they also specialize in their tremendous help in the Bikur Cholim - help for the families of those who are in hospitals, but this is a full article of its own.


Rabbi Ben-Zion Chanowitz
Monticello

The Old Shanty Lady

To the editor:
Thank you for the time and effort, you created a lovely little story about Big Bunny practically out of thin air. I can now forgive you for the “Desperate Housewife” award. Call me ever sensitive, my mother always did. It's just that I take pride in my only marriage, to my art.
I made a clean break from NYC seven years ago. I was desperate to get out. I spent my entire adult life in the same little walk up in Hell's Kitchen as the luxury highrises went up around us. They say it takes seven years to settle into a place and this is it for me, my house in Bethel. For better or worse.
My first year making a fool of myself in the Hortonville Talent Show was before your time as judge. I played the Old Shanty Lady, singing and dancing with a laundry basket full of watercolors. Jane, our fearless leader and musical director, had spent the previous day stringing a clothesline across the back of the stage. I hung out my “wash” of small paintings of my corner of the universe, Dr. Duggan and 17B, and sort of sang to the tune of “Old Shanty Town”.
It went:
I moved to Lil's yellow house on 17B
Speed limit 55, zooming truck's 70!
I put up a wood fence, it helped stopped the shake.
Out the side door, Dr. Duggan, take the dogs to the lake.
My first winter in Bethel, my feet nearly froze.
But then came the Spring time, I still had all my toes.
I won't move cause I'm tough!
It's my home. I got too much stuff!
In Lil's yellow house on 17B.
What I remember is the look on people's faces. Huh? Who? What? The? Please, let me know.


Art by Cynthia
Bethel

Just, please, admit you were wrong?

To the editor:
Denise Connolly's Letter “Never Pleased,” recalls to me Trump's behavioral template. If someone challenges Trump on his fake facts, or reminds him of something he has said before which he now contradicts, he gets aggressive, nasty and personal.
I pointed out that Mrs. Connolly had her facts wrong. Rather than defend her statements which were pure wish fulfillment, she pointed out in her letter what a loser I am. What does that have to do with the price of masks in China?
Furthermore, the accusation that I think “all” people who vote for Trump are stupid and racist, is absurd. I have some very intelligent friends who supported him. And some of them are not even pure white, whatever that means.
They agreed with his policies on Israel and thought he was good for the economy. They liked the way he dealt with “Rocket Man” even though that love affair led to nothing.
No-one is perfect and even someone like me, dumb enough to have run for Town Supervisor, and unlucky enough to own a restaurant in a pandemic, can be right some of the time.
And, in this case, Mrs. Connolly, I was spot on. Just please, be intelligent enough to admit it when you are wrong.



Judith Maidenbaum





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