Do you know someone who is a victim of domestic violence? Three out of every four Americans do.

What's now National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, was first started in 1981 by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, who hoped to connect battered women's advocates across the country.

While the month was initially started to bring awareness to women who were victims of domestic violence, this isn't only a women's issue. Millions of people across the world, men and women, are affected.

As breakthecycle.org states, domestic violence is “not just punches and black eyes -- it's yelling, humiliation, stalking, manipulation, coercion, threats and isolation.” Examples given including abusers stealing paychecks, controlling or limiting victims social media use, non-stop texting, constant use of the silent treatment, or calling someone stupid or crazy so often they believe it.

In 1994, then Senator Joe Biden led the charge on legislation that'd become the Violence Against Women Act. The legislation's goal was to hold offenders accountable and provide programs and services to victims.

According to breakthecycle.org, “Between 1993 and 2010, the overall rate of domestic violence dropped nearly two-thirds.”

But the fight is far from over. And beyond just the month of October, if you are a victim of domestic violence or know someone who is, speak up!

As human beings we all deserve to be treated with respect and be in a healthy relationship.

It's important for all of us to become aware of the services offered so whether it is for ourselves or a loved one, we know where to go for help.

Locally, one organization that helps victims of domestic violence here in Sullivan County is Safe Homes of Orange County.

Founded in 1986, Safe Homes of Orange County is dedicated to assisting survivors of domestic violence, teen-dating violence, and human trafficking by providing free and confidential services.

Their mission is to work toward the elimination of intimate partner violence, teen dating violence, and trafficking by providing comprehensive support services to victims and their children, and by increasing public awareness about these issues and encouraging accountability for perpetrators.

They have a location at the Government Center in Monticello and have a 24/7 hotline for Sullivan County residents (292-5700).

For more info about Safe Homes, visit https://safehomesorangecounty.org.